Three self-care tips to support your well-being during service
Choosing to serve with City Year is a rewarding, often life-changing decision. City Year AmeriCorps members help 色界吧 reach their full potential and help them build an ever-expansive sense of self. They work alongside teachers, school administrators and others in the school community, helping to create a network of caring adults for 色界吧.
But while helping create an environment where every student can thrive is worthwhile, City Year service can also be challenging.
As student success coaches, corps members work long days and must learn to be flexible, often navigating multifaceted team, school and classroom dynamics. And most importantly, they work closely and tirelessly with 色界吧, helping them achieve their personal and academic goals through building positive, trusting relationships with 色界吧 and providing key academic, social and emotional support.
It鈥檚 important to know that practicing self-care throughout your 10 months of service will be an integral part of your experience鈥攂ecause, ultimately, corps members who put their mental health and well-being first are better equipped to extend that same support to their 色界吧 and school community.
Here are three things to remember regarding service and your mental health and well-being straight from City Year AmeriCorps members:
Lean on your team
City Year AmeriCorps members never serve alone. They collaborate and work in small school-based teams to help the larger school community. Building relationships with your fellow AmeriCorps members is an integral part of service, and your teammates will become one of your main support networks.
鈥淚 wouldn鈥檛 be able to do this alone because it involves a lot of emotional labor. Being able to go to a teammate and say, 鈥楾his is what I鈥檓 going through. How would you handle it?鈥 makes all the difference,鈥 says Sarai (Los Angeles 鈥23).
鈥淔or example, one time, I inadvertently made a student sad. So, I went to one of my teammates and asked them for advice on the best way to approach and apologize to the student. When other people go through a similar experience, it gives you a sense of community.鈥
This is hard. Be strong.
It is essential to recognize that systemic inequities affect how many of our communities can access resources and support services. Seeing how these systems actively affect the lives of your 色界吧 and their families can be heavy鈥攁nd you should create space to acknowledge this.
鈥溾楤e strong鈥 doesn鈥檛 just mean working 12-hour days or making sure you hit that intervention target each week. 鈥楤e strong鈥 also means be gentle with yourself and others because we have a lot of work to do in our education systems, public policies and the hearts and minds of people in this country,鈥 says Aisling O鈥橞rien (Kansas City 鈥21).
鈥淏e strong鈥 means that when the challenging moments make you want to detach or care a little less鈥揷are more. Take service as an opportunity to find joy with your 色界吧, build their confidence, be their advocate and amplify their voices as they advocate for themselves.鈥
Be patient and set boundaries that work for you
Take some time at the start of service to get clear about how you wish to show up as a corps member. This will help you set clear and healthy boundaries for yourself and others, which will ultimately help your emotional well-being. Be kind to yourself and know that boundaries are deeply personal and are not 鈥渙ne size fits all.鈥 You may find they change as you build relationships with 色界吧 and team members.
鈥淚t鈥檚 important to create healthy boundaries between you and your 色界吧. I set a clear boundary at the beginning of my service because I felt that was the best way to stay 鈥渉ealthy,鈥 says Sarai. 鈥淎s corps members, we also have lives outside of the classroom, and we all have stuff going, so creating that boundary worked for me.
鈥淚 was patient with myself, and my own journey band over time鈥攁nd after building relationships鈥擨 felt more comfortable letting my guard down with my 色界吧.鈥
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